How you Treat Others?

Treat everyone you meet as if they are somebody, equally; because they are. Every person in this world is special and unique, deserves to be treated like who they ought to be, for the life potential within them because they are another but loving energy, genuinely human; forget all statuses and positions, see them with your heart not your eyes, don’t allow hidden agendas to oversee your reasons for your words

Attitude Matters !

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by. The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to Shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career. When the carpenter finished his work the employer came to inspect the house. He handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This is your house" he said, "my gift to you." The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. So it is with us. We build our lives, a day at a time, often putting less than our best into the building. Then with a shock we realize we have to live in the house we have built. If we could do it over, we'd do it much differently. But we cannot go back. You are the carpenter. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a Wall. "Life is a do-it-yourself project" someone has said . Your attitudes and the choices you make today, build the "house" you live in tomorrow. Build wisely!

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Top 5 Flirting Moves That Drive Men Crazy

Is there a drop-dead gorgeous guy you can’t stop thinking about... who doesn’t know you exist? Well, at times, it'll take more than just a pair of killer shoes, red lippy and sexy clothes to get his attention. What you need to learn is the art of flirting. Take the seduction up a notch and you'll get any guy wrapped around your little finger. Here are 5 flirting moves to drive him crazy. *wink *

Eyelash bat: The most common trick in the book, batting your eyelashes with an added wink will have the guy stuck on you. Fascinate him further with a seductive smirk and watch him walk up to you and strike up a conversation.

Lip lick: Invite him for coffee and head over to the nearest coffee shop. Keep it all casual till the coffee arrives.  Take a sip of your coffee and slowly lick the froth off your lips with your tongue.  You can also bite them as if savoring the taste for prolonged seconds and see him become like putty in your hands.

Falling in love: The man you desperately want to hold is standing next to you and you can do nothing to touch him. Just pretend to trip and wait for him to catch you. Take longer than usual to recover and let him hold you close. Compliment him on his strong biceps and make him go gaga.

Tress pass: Men love women's hair and that is one of the many first things they notice about you.  Play with your hair when around him. Take a pen or hair clip and tie your hair and after a while just pretend to be bored and let your hair loose. Let him watch you do it and we promise he will be tempted to touch your tresses too.

Disappointments...

Disappointments are like road humps they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards Don't stay on the bumps too long. Just Move on

Success comes to those..

Success comes to the one who absorbs only the good and positive aspects. 

Projection: The one who has the power to absorb, naturally absorbs only the positive aspects of everything he comes into contact with. So the response too is always positive. Never is there reactions towards difficult situations or people, but there is the natural ability to absorb all that is good and respond positively accordingly. 

Solution: Once I instill the habit of seeing only the positive aspect in everything, I find myself getting free from negativity. It is like filling in fresh water into a pail of dirty water. When there is a continuous flow of fresh water into even the most dirty water, gradually the water getting purified. So too I find myself getting internally cleansed of all negativity with a continuous flow of positivity.

Happiness !!

Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.

Can I Borrow Rs.25 ?

A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5-year old son waiting for her at the door.

SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?'

MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman.

SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said angrily.
SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'If you must know, I make R 50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Mummy, may I please borrow Rs 25?'

The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door..

The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down , and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs 25.00 and she really didn't ask for money very often.The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' She asked.

'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the Rs 25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Mummy, I have R50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that R50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.!!

Life is a Dance !

 When you go by your body and intellect alone, life is a circus. When the intelligence of divine begins to play its role, life becomes a dance.