After writing about Happiness, I wish to continue this
positive vibe and spread happiness all the way. We should definitely avoid the
below mentioned points if you want to be surrounded by happy people in life.
Here is your Happy List
1. Hearsay
Gossiping / Back Biting about others won't do any good and
will barely formulate envious environment and you as bitter. An individual who
chitchat about others is the one whose private life is not rewarding enough and
he/she wants to be acquainted with what is happening in other individual’s life.
People who are joyful and satisfied always avoid this loop and keep themselves
focused on their own life instead.
2. Negative Approach
Negative thoughts are bound to have an effect on your
happiness since you are focal point is on the gray areas of life, instead of
optimistic feeling. Negative, naysayers always are concerned and bothered all
the time. On the other hand, joyful individuals always approach things
completely and are positive in nature.
3. What you think
about me.
One aspect on which you can never be in command is how
others think about you – so simply ignore the trailing thinking process of
others to stay happy. Don't think about
over what others are thinking about you. You can never alter somebody's thought
process. You have yourself in control not others. Just be yourself and let
others be enthused and overwhelmed by your true self and positivity.
4. Recalling plight
from the past
You must forget what you encountered in the past and how it
dented your life. Do not ponder a lot about it as you cannot amend what has
previously taken place. Past dilemma can influence any individual badly if
he/she defers to move on. So bottom line is to forget the past, live in your
present and focus on your how to mend you future to make it jovial. Take your
past as lesson.
5. Holding onto your
grudges
We all do hold on to our grudges and feel suffocated to
observe a contented life. Holding on to bitterness will simply strengthen your
hard feelings and pessimistic emotion which will pull you down into sadness
filled sea. You should learn, practice how to let go and pardon the other
individual for his/her wrong deeds. If you can't forgive and forget, at least
drop it from your head, and move on. Take a deep breath and move on for better
life.
